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Mar 12, 2007

Drawing lines … in the sand …

Boundaries …

Hello
We as individuals need to clearly define ...
A conception of our own personal identity …
Without our own understanding of self …
Who we are … and what makes us different …
It is impossible to engage in a functional relationship …
Or to clearly and unambiguously communicate …
With people around us and with who we care for …
The similarities between people are often appreciated …
But do we ever stop to respect the differences … ?
Enter personal boundaries ...
Boundaries define limits …
Mark off dividing lines …
The purpose of a boundary is …
To make clear separations …
Between different turfs …
Between different territories …

Personal boundaries are the limits we set …
Allowing us to protect ourselves from manipulation …
Boundaries are a part of …
The biological imperative of maturation …
As we individuate and become adults …
They help us separate our own thoughts and feelings …
To take responsibility for what we think, feel and do …
They help us enjoy ourselves while respecting others …
But boundaries don’t always keep people out …
Sometimes they fence us in ... real tight ...
Think about this ... will do you good ... hehe ...
Laterx …

7 comments:

Simon said...

bro,

what are you reading these days? Or let me rephrase that for you...what the hell are you on these days?

Good stuff man. Really good. Worth a coffee from me to u.

subcorpus said...

simon::
phases bro ... phases ...
life is a series of it ...
hehe ...
coffee ... ? sure !!!
hehe ...

vishnu said...

dude.. usually mid-life crisis is around 40 . you are not there yet, so get in line and wait a while.
Its sad to see you in this state, really. that bitch must have really gotten to you.
always remember, they may be able to fake their orgasms better but we are the better wankers.
hope this cheers you up.

subcorpus said...

vishnu::
u got it all wrong bro ...
this not about a girl ...
hehe ...
but sounds like it is dho ..
hehe ...

shanoo said...

damn!thats what I\'v been doing all this time? :P.. better open em gates wide..

really good piece..

vishnu said...

subcorp..
just testing my emoticons.. why dont they work on your site??
[img]http://emoticons4u.com/smoking/rauch08.gif[/img]

vishnu said...

:) ;) :(

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